A Tribute to Nancy Ahlswede

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As I stepped into my new office in September of 2013, I began to look around the office to get a sense of who was here before. It was a surreal feeling to walk among binders and binders filled with memos, emails and past magazines that were once under the authority of someone I knew had the hearts of this membership. After a few days of getting to know the staff and talking with some of the board members it suddenly dawned on me that I was not alone in this process. I was about to walk into the footsteps of a legend in the multifamily industry.

As the months went by and I began to meet more and more people, the comments started with this statement, “Oh, you are the new Nancy”. But I knew immediately that there was more to this Association than just being the “new Nancy.” Nancy left a legacy that will never be matched. She was a force to be reckoned with. It was clear that her devotion to this industry went beyond her position as Executive Director—it was her passion. When I finally met Nancy, we talked for close to two hours and when I left that meeting with her, I knew that I could always go to her to ask questions and get advice. As with anything in life, when the opportunity is not there any longer you always wish you had more time to ask just one more question or learn just one more tidbit that will help your organization.

Over the next few pages it is only fitting that we share some thoughts that come directly from those who loved and admired her the most. So, in her memory, we share these tributes.

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Ron Kingston was honored to give the eulogy at Nancy’s funeral. Here are a few excerpts from the eulogy:

Nancy—

Was a master collaborator who was result-driven. People from all walks of life would conclude that the solution that was reached when Nancy was involved in negotiations of an issue was always the best possible.

Had organizational skills that assured success. Just a few years ago, she was hospitalized during the annual trade show. That did not interfere with making the trade show extremely successful. This skill was passed on to her daughter, Katherine.

At times, I wondered if they should have considered installing a hide a bed or futon in the office due to the number of hours they would work.

Was the eternal optimist. Just three weeks ago she and I talked about her plans for her 70th birthday party which would be on a boat in the Long Beach harbor. And during that same conversation she was planning on how she would resume being with her family, Larry, Katherine, Chip, Jennifer and the three grandchildren—Cooper (who loves video games), Donovan (who loves sports such as flag football) and Nixon (who was just baptized).

Has a legacy that can never be forgotten. Each one of us should always remember that she would push forward during extremely difficult and challenging times.

Michael D. Pintek, Board Emeritus
We in the legal profession would refer to Nancy as a “Force Majeure” (a superior or irresistible force). The small acorn that was the Association 28 years ago, through the work and efforts of the officers, board of directors and membership, who were the roots, under the guidance, administration and dedication of Nancy, who was the lignin that held it all together, has grown into a mighty oak tree. Nancy’s star shined bright on all of us while enriching our lives and illuminating the path in front of us.

Bob Luskin
I had the pleasure of working with Nancy for over 20 years. Nancy wan an amazing person. She has made the Apartment Association what it is today. Nancy will be missed.

Allen & Mary Ann Wood
Nancy lives on in our hearts and memories. Not only as a great lady who led the Apartment Association for so many years, but also as a very dear friend.

Sharon Coughlin
Nancy was definitely destined to be a leader of this organization that so generously devotes their time and energy in fighting for the rights of people in the rental housing industry both for owners as well as for tenants. Her amazing knowledge provided anyone interested in seeking a career in property management the understanding of how great it truly is to SERVE people. I was always amazed by her as a woman, a great mother and most of all a great leader to be inspired by.

Pat Thornton
I was shocked and saddened by this news. Brian and I always felt so welcome at the monthly meetings. She always had a ready smile and enthusiasm and the ability to spread hope and joy!

Grace Velazquez, GGB Properties, Inc.
Despite being a “new-comer” to the industry, Nancy took the time to get to know me and showed genuine care. Nancy’s passion was contagious and I hope that her legacy will live on.

Rebecca Moffett, A Better Property Management, and Past Board President, and Board Emeritus
Nancy was dedicated to landlords and their property rights and she always put them first. She was smart, well known, connected and knew how to work a crowd or a council meeting. She had intuitive gifts that were unparalleled with anyone I have ever known. She had great command of her job, of legislative bills and happenings, of other Asso ciations’ trials and tribulations, etc. Nancy knew everyone, never forgot a name and was a brilliant strategist. When Nancy spoke, you listened. She made sure everyone was well informed on all the issues and she listened to people to make sure that the board members could arrive at a consensus on most issues. She held everyone to a high standard which everyone wanted to meet and it was easy as we followed the lead of Nancy and the high bar she set for herself. She praised everyone on their good deeds, thanked volunteers with certificates and personalized plaques and paperweights. No matter what you volunteered for, you were acknowledged in many ways.

Sandra Feliciano, Broker
She was the reason I attended the CAM courses and received my designation. I appreciate all that she did for our industry. She will truly be missed.

Wendy Henning
What a “gal”...she made me feel like a long-time friend. I will miss her personality and gracious nature.

Virginia (Ginny) Ball
I so appreciate Nancy’s help in coming to Whittier on many evenings to help me start the Whittier Apartment Association. It is still going strong, but it is with her help that we got it “off the ground!”

Alejandra Kostuch
Nancy, the lady that always had answers no matter what it was about.

Coy Herring, Past President and Director Emeritus Through Nancy’s tireless and brilliant leadership we endured, survived and flourished. Through her abundant friendship we all were rewarded.

John & “Bub” Pratt, Past
Board President (1993-1994) I remember when the Board asked her to be Executive Officer. I believe that was 1991 when Phil Dauk was President of the Board and I was Vice President. Nancy was a tremendous help to our Association. She wore many hats for us as editor of the magazine, legislative advocate and executive officer. I don’t know how she did it all. Not to mention herding 20 or so cats (Board of Directors). She is certainly missed by all. Our sympathy to Larry and the family.

Evelyn Arnold
What a loss to our industry and to the world! Nancy was one of a kind who was always fighting for the rights of the small apartment owners and others. May she rest in peace.

Kelly Geonetta,
R.E.M.S., Inc. To all the people that she touched with her smile. To her family and friends. Thank you.

Gina Trinidad
Thank you Nancy for all of what you have done and for all the times you fought for us. You will be remembered and prayed for.


This has been a wonderful 28 years journey with you. It has been said that a person who is passionate about what they do, never works a day in his/her life. I thank you for the opportunity to be one of those people.”
Nancy Ahlswede, 2012

When you wake up tomorrow and each day following think of what you learned from Nancy. Think of what you will do that she taught you that you will continue to do. Let her inspire us to do better. Let her energy, ability, and forward movement not wane.

Larry would often times say “One of the things that I loved about Nancy was that she was the smartest woman that I ever knew.” – Ron Kingston

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